Below is a picture of the failed spring plate on the Ironman shock. Note that this is supposed to be one peice. i suspect that this has been broken for some time and only failed during the hard impact.
below is the picture of the two grooves to choose from on the Bilstein strut. I have chosen the lower option for now and will move it up if i need to.
and below is a picture of the two shocks side by side.